When you have no doubts concerning your choice, when you know where to go – then you feel confident.
When you know that you are very unique and special person it makes you feel confident.
And when you feel confident then it gives you freedom of action, courage to take risks, strength to cope with problems etc.
Do you feel confident?
We must acknowledge that certain things we can’t learn at school, at college or at work. These things are: How to have a happy family life? How to gain success? How to become more confident? etc. It’s good when we know some person with a rich experience, who can share it with us, help us. But, in most cases we look for the info in different sources without knowing what is true.
But the way to solving problems is much simpler.
When you want to change yourself not others it’s the first step on this way. The best method to solve problems is doing something by yourself without waiting for someone’s help.
The first stage in development of your confidence is to realize what you do badly, what are your bad habits, weak points; as usually they are great obstacles on your way to success.
The second stage is the most important. After finding your weak points you should maintain self-respect.
The third stage – learn and try various methods of behavior in different situations. These methods you choose by yourself, they shouldn’t conflict with your views of life, should be most suitable and safe for your self-esteem and should contribute to the achievement of your goals.
The fourth stage – the most difficult. You should be ready for all the consequences of your changes and know how to turn them to your advantage. You should be yourself and let other be themselves without trying to change them. You should learn to accept everything as it is.
Try this and be confident in all your actions!